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by footpad (Abbot) on Aug 17, 2001 at 21:06 UTC | |
I'm sorry. You had me until your fourth paragraph, which--if implemented--is a good way to get fired in the U.S. You see, we have this little law forbidding sexual discrimination in any form. And, yes, that means you can be fired for having a pin-up calendar, telling one off-color joke, or even patting someone on the shoulder. If this seems extreme to you, then I suggest you begin researching the reasons for this law and others that forbid discrimination in any form. I believe that the best way to encourage anyone to enter a field is to respect their potential, to encourage them to excel, to allow them to have fun, and to allow mistakes without recrimination.1 I have worked for many companies over the years and have seen many good people, male and female. Those that I've found the most interesting and that I've most enjoyed working with are the ones that feel free to achieve, to have ambitions, and to succeed. Read more... (4 kB) | [reply] |
by mugwumpjism (Hermit) on Aug 17, 2001 at 21:26 UTC | |
Sure, it might be illegal to discriminate in the work force, but I think you'll find it's not forbidden for boys to make lewd comments in school between themselves about girls. Update: Apparently, in the States this is illegal. I stand corrected, though anyone who tries to say that this sort of legislation achieves anything but more jobs for lawyers doesn't understand children. Are the lawmakers over there that detacted from reality? | [reply] |
by footpad (Abbot) on Aug 17, 2001 at 21:38 UTC | |
According to this, that's illegal, too. Yes, it happens but it's still illegal and actionable. You will find, I think, that many schools are stepping up efforts to prevent that sort of thing. Update: More Links: --f | [reply] |
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Re: Women Programmers, Sex, Tai Chi and Reincarnation
by Cubes (Pilgrim) on Aug 18, 2001 at 03:06 UTC | |
If you want more women in computing -- or any traditionally male-dominated field -- you'll need to work on changing the men who don't want us here -- the ones who make subtle and not-so-subtle sexist comments (I've had these go as far as threats of physical violence if I didn't quit a particular job -- a "man's" job), the ones who assume we're the receptionist when they spot us in the office lobby, and even the ones who rush to help us lift a heavy monitor onto a desk (I know they meant well, but it was rather embarassing to have complete strangers "rescue" me -- in public -- from tasks that were part of my regular job duties). You'll have to change the bosses and teachers who single us out and place extra demands on us in the classroom or office because they don't think we belong here in the first place so by god we'll have to prove we've got what it takes, and the subordinates who challenge our authority at every turn because who wants to take orders from a girl? You'll have to change our boyfriends and husbands, whose egos rebel when confronted with a partner whose career is more successful than their own. Then you can go to work on the women -- our mothers, our sisters, our peers -- who laugh behind our backs because we're involved in such an un-ladylike profession, or who frown and wonder why we can't just find ourselves a nice husband, settle down, and raise kids like they did. Things are improving -- it's gotten a lot better since I started out. If I follow the trend back before my time, I can't imagine how any women at all got into technical fields. And I have a lot of respect for those who did. But we're still getting over those attitudes. Young women still have mothers who wish they'd be proper ladies, and old chauvinists are still in positions of power. The blatant sexism is mostly gone, but the subtle pressure from society in general will take another generation or three to fade away. | [reply] |
by ozone (Friar) on Aug 19, 2001 at 13:11 UTC | |
I'm sure it's been said before, but I think you might find that a lot of the discriminatory behaviour is a direct result of conditioning that occurs throughout our lives. You know, the blue/pink baby clothes, the toys we get, the little two yr old girl pushing a miniture pram along side her mom (who is pushing a big pram)... Because we're conditioned like this from a very young age (and we tend to pass these attitudes on), I don't see those people changing overnight or even for the next few generations. After all, you can't easily dictate to a parent how (s)he is going to teach their child. | [reply] |
by xphase_work (Pilgrim) on Aug 20, 2001 at 21:30 UTC | |
Thanks, | [reply] |
by $code or die (Deacon) on Aug 21, 2001 at 04:50 UTC | |
Re: Women Programmers, Sex, Tai Chi and Reincarnation
by cacharbe (Curate) on Aug 18, 2001 at 06:34 UTC | |
The supposition that how clean you keep your self, and what shape you're in, will have any impact on how many women are in our industry (or any technical industry for that matter) is one of the most chauvanistic, narcissitic things I've ever heard. How demeaning to women that we would think that they would want to "Join Our Club" based on how good we look. What keeps women out of our industry is the belief by men that they aren't good enough, and it gets pushed down the line, my friend. If you want to see more women in our industry, start teaching young women and little girls that It's okay to: And, you also have to teach young men and little boys that it's okay for women to: And that it's not okay to: women in anyway. And until that happens, there will continue to be gender casting of our children, both male and female, there will continue to be children that are abused mentally and physically and thus taught that they aren't good enough to fulfill their dreams, or have aspirations. Yes, we are responsible for who makes up our ranks, but it is much more than our appearance, it is our mind set, it is our continued demeaning of gender, and it is sad that so few of us see it. That just pissed me off. C-. | [reply] |
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Re: Women Programmers, Sex, Tai Chi and Reincarnation
by Cybercosis (Monk) on Aug 17, 2001 at 22:25 UTC | |
Yes, I said that the female mind (and brain) is structured differently. At no point did I use the word "inferior". To do so would have been a fallacy and a gross overgeneralization in one, and I make a point of not committing either. The differences between the actual physical brain structures and the functioning of the mind between the two sexes are easily observable. The two work something like matter and space: matter tells space how to curve, and space tells matter how to move. Likewise, the brain provides a space in which the mind can work, and the mind can change the chemical properties of the brain. The fact that these two complex and wonderfully intertwined systems happen to (generally) branch at a gender difference is evident, but not completely understood. (most) Women are better at multitasking, (most) men are better at superfocusing. (most) Women nagvigate by corridors, (most) men navigate by intersections. (most) Women can, under the proper circumstances, produce milk, (most) men can only do it in an emergency (somebody correct me if I'm wrong. This is another citation from a half-remembered source). The differences among these three are superficial, and certainly do not mark either gender as "inferior". I ask that you read what I write, rather than reading into it. ~Cybercosis nemo accipere quod non merere | [reply] |
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Re: Women Programmers, Sex, Tai Chi and Reincarnation
by chromatic (Archbishop) on Aug 21, 2001 at 00:49 UTC | |
I met several Perl gurus at TPC 5. Of those, very few fit any stereotype. There is great diversity in age, habits, experience, hobbies, body types, and marital status. Questions as to why there are so few female programmers (especially in the Perl world!) are worth entertaining. So also are suggestions on how regular exercise, healthy diet, and an improved sleep schedule improve memory, mental clarity, and the ability to perform work. As for the rest, the debate of Nature versus Nurture will not be solved here. It's worth discussing ways in which the Perl and general programming communities do (or do not) encourage people (not just women) to join. I find the implicit assumption a little insulting. "If you want women, you lazy slobs will have to shape up and stop drooling over them." I, for one, want programmers who write programs that don't suck. There are men and women fully capable of doing that right now, and there are many more who can reach that point. I fail to see how skipping my workout today will change that. | [reply] |
Re: Women Programmers, Sex, Tai Chi and Reincarnation
by Moonie (Friar) on Aug 19, 2001 at 21:55 UTC | |
This is one of the most ridiculous things I've read here. You think women base their acceptence of a job due to how "fit" and "outgoing" their co-workers are? You've got to be kidding! Are women so shallow as to judge their work environment on the base of their co-workers looks and personalities? NO! I don't think this occurs with either sex. Sure, there are exceptions - but you seem to be speaking in general terms - so this reply is reacting to that frame of mind. It's great to be in shape, but do it for yourself - not for some other edification. What if a woman programmer likes the sterotyped "programmer guru?" Hmmm? I know I did not start programming or being interested in computers due to the "fitness" of my fellow students nor how "social" they were. It was based on how much I enjoyed the work, the environment (I should say - management style that many IT/Tech departments have...), and my co-workers - fat or thin, quiet or outgoing - they are all respected based on their merits, not physical and social standards (which are subjective). They know/knew their job well and did it well. That's what counts, right? I think so. Granted, your post may have meant well mugwumpjism - I just didn't particularly appreciate a bit of the aspects of it. Update: I agree tadman - although I haven't run into that quite yet. Again.. historically this whole mediation may be very accurate. My experiences have been different - it's possible I've run into exceptions. | [reply] |
by tadman (Prior) on Aug 20, 2001 at 03:38 UTC | |
You must admit, the attraction of working at a company, or in an industry, where you are constantly agitated by your peers, would have less of an attraction than an alternative which would accept you more readily. Consider how difficult it was for women to enter any traditionally male-dominated profession, such as medicine, law, or politics. Times are changing, but 100 years ago, there would have been very serious backlash. It was deliberate, to preserve the status-quo. Whatever the circumstances today, I'm not especially concerned about the gender balance in technology today. If people do their part, such as keeping the environment more professional and less like a "boys locker room", then we all benefit. The pseudo-impersonal nature of the Internet may actually be a factor, since gender is less "visible" as well as being less of an issue. | [reply] |
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Re (tilly) 1: Women Programmers, Sex, Tai Chi and Reincarnation
by tilly (Archbishop) on Aug 21, 2001 at 00:04 UTC | |
Your thesis is that if we all become physically fit then we will "get enough" and not drive away females from our profession with our pathetic, panting attempts to get laid. But, admittedly without any data other than anecdotal evidence, I have to say that I don't think it is clear what the correlation is between being physically fit and random drooling. Certainly lots of out of shape men become tongue-tied in the presence of women. Certainly lots of athletic men think they are God's gift to women and attempt to seduce everything that passes. I have known enough from both groups to doubt that there is a strong correlation between how fit you are and how much of a PITA you will be to females in your environment. As for the "undersexed" part, well suffice it to say that plenty of programmers seem to have no problem with that aspect of life. Conversely I have known highly competent men in many professions who have trouble with women. Sure, there is a stereotypical geek, and there are enough of them around that the stereotypes are not wholly undeserved. However as a data point, the most "undersexed" geeks I have personally known happened to be in excellent physical shape. I think that looking up to someone other than "Spock" as a role-model would have done them (a pair of brothers) more good than learning a martial art. As a random data point I should note that of the Saints in our Book whose personal lives I know anything about, a majority have no apparent problems in their relationships with the opposite sex. And finally, your theory does nothing to explain why there should be such a huge difference between the ratios of men/women visible in the Perl community as opposed to programming in general... | [reply] |
Re: Women Programmers, Sex, Tai Chi and Reincarnation
by ralphie (Friar) on Aug 18, 2001 at 03:14 UTC | |
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Re: Women Programmers, Sex, Tai Chi and Reincarnation
by drfrog (Deacon) on Aug 17, 2001 at 19:36 UTC | |
interesting one thing of note is that the physical makeup of the male and female brain is different i have read that the female brain has more connections between the left and right hemispheres what does this mean? supposedly it means that men have better cognitive abilities {on average} and women are better at spacial memory also i have to say tai chi and chi kung are great exercise i can say ive slipped in the summer but it greatly improves your state of mind and health toodles back in the day we didnt have no old school | [reply] |
by mugwumpjism (Hermit) on Aug 17, 2001 at 19:53 UTC | |
i have read that the female brain has more connections between the left and right hemispheres what does this mean? supposedly it means that men have better cognitive abilities {on average} How on earth can they say that with little to no real understanding of how the brain actually performs cognitive functions? One interesting phenomenon detailed by the Holographic Universe was the effect of conciousness on scientific studies, and how generally accepted beliefs manifest themselves in the world. For instance, neutrinos may or may not have mass, depending on the beliefs of the physicist involved. In the US it's massless, in Russia not. The books suggest that it's not an experimental error, but the physicist is actually changing the way that the particles behave. Very bizarre, and kind of makes a mockery of science. Hence the refusal by the Orthodox scientific community to accept the model. | [reply] |
by drfrog (Deacon) on Aug 17, 2001 at 20:29 UTC | |
brain does not nessicarily mean mind! caveat: even though i read something doesnt mean im not skeptical! i remeber having this great discussion with a friend of mine who just got her masters in psychology i asked her how one could go about making an closed environment for experimentation after all everything is in a symbiotic harmony right? i also asked her if it was possible to quantify the emotional content of an experiment of course she had no answers and she wondered why this has been so avoided im not sure either and of course i have my theories another thing of interest , that you point towards is the ability to define an experiment and what you think the outcome should be what this meant is that one scientist could think this should happen and it would while another would try to prove another angle and get that too the mind has a powerful influence on the outcome of things mostly i think this is because as stated earlier we do not live in a closed system btw if your into tai chi and chi kung id suggest reading anything by mantak chia back in the day we didnt have no old school | [reply] |
Re: Women Programmers, Sex, Tai Chi and Reincarnation
by thabenksta (Pilgrim) on Aug 20, 2001 at 21:51 UTC | |
Hey Buddy, I don't know about you, but I wouldn't say I'm "undersexed". I know nobody wants to hear the details, so I'll spare you, but I have a fiance that can look past the taped glasses, pocket protector and suspendors. Maybe instead of conforming to a Superficial, Discriminatory society, we should work on a work environment that people don't have to worry so much about how they look, as if they can actually do their job. But Hell, why would that matter, I'd rather have a nice perty lady to look at instead of somebody competent enough to get the job done. -thabenkstaGive Me a Dollar! | [reply] [d/l] |