You can run apache with root, but need to compile with -DBIG_SECURITY_HOLE :)

If you really need that, you can use a database cgi application, and then run a cron every 5 minutes that read the database and kill the process, and that cron run as root

i'm not recommend anything, you cannot fix the problem, instead of kill the process?

UPDATE: Users explain more thing, while i was writing this, please disregard