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Re: My favorite food for feasting:

by Smaug (Pilgrim)
on Nov 13, 2006 at 06:48 UTC ( [id://583653] : note . print w/replies, xml ) Need Help??

in reply to My favorite food for feasting:

Seafood ??

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Re^2: My favorite food for feasting:
by chargrill (Parson) on Nov 13, 2006 at 07:35 UTC

    Oddly enough, I had a conversation about this with my wife this weekend, on the way to a wedding reception, where we were debating what we 'ordered' on the RSVP cards.

    She said something along the lines of: "I think I put you down for meat, and I think I put myself down for fish." Naturally, I responded "Isn't fish meat?". The answer: "No. Well, yes, it's a type of meat, but it's not meat, it's fish."

    So there is definitely some set of people that think that meat == beef, pork, or chicken, and vegetarian == non-meat. To some of these people, non-meat includes fish, which makes no sense to me, but oodles of sense to my wife. Possibly because she hails from the east coast of the US, where seafood is plentiful, and needs to be classified differently from normal midwestern fare such as beef, chicken, and pork. Which are all meats. But not seafood. Thus the strange non-meat distinction.

    I asked her very kindly to refer to non-seafood 'meat' as either beef, pork or chicken - but no, those are meat, while seafood is fish. And not meat. Which I do not understand, but understandably have to accept.

    Suffice it to say that some vegetarians (perhaps our own ysth included) consider fish a non-meat meat, and thus don't include it on meat v. non-meat polls.

    Update:Oh, and due to the above, I have no idea how my wife would answer the poll for Christmas, where her family observes the (italian|catholic|east-coast) tradition of the "Feast of (nearly) 7 fishes", where they feast on several (up to, but never more than, 7) types of fish, none of which I particularly care for ;-)

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      One time I was traveling and getting a little bit tired of eating steak. I asked if they had something besides meat, and they replied yes, they had chicken.

      This was in southern Germany, and it wasn't a translation error since the person who asked for me speaks fluent German. (I've actually had some of the best vegetarian food at the German Perl Workshop, but I don't think that's the norm.)

      Oh, and people who eat fish and seafood (but not other meats) should just call themselves pescetarian. Otherwise they're deluding themselves.

      # I eat most red meat and fowl, but not fish or pork. The term for this diet is 'picky'.

        Oh, and people who eat fish and seafood (but not other meats) should just call themselves pescetarian. Otherwise they're deluding themselves.
        I've heard "vegetarians" use a pizza name in defense -- frutti di mare! :-)

        Well, I was in Dortmund, Germany in March, and I must have had a dozen straight meals where I had pig. Man, I was dying for some lovely grilled beef when I got home.

        Alex / talexb / Toronto

        "Groklaw is the open-source mentality applied to legal research" ~ Linus Torvalds

      Ha Ha!!

      I've had the same or similar discussion with my wife recently over the whole red meat vs white meat discussion. In her opinion "all fowl is white meat", and "all animals are red meat." This of course means that neither fish nor fowl are animals?!?! But when I raised this I was apparently being difficult......

      I decided not to even go down the road of escargot, or ostrich (which is a fowl as you know, but is red meat).

      Roger Waters (from the album Radio K.A.O.S.):
      Californian Weirdo: "I don't like fish."
      Jim: "You are listening to KAOS here in Los Angeles."
      Californian Weirdo: "I don't like fish."
      Jim: "Yes, we've established that. Ah! Do you have a request?"
      Californian Weirdo: "Shell fish, Guppy, Salmon, Shrimp, and crab, and lobster, Flounder, I hate fish But I think most of all I hate fresh fish, like trout. I hate fresh trout. My least-hated, favorite fish would be sole. That way you don't have to see the eyes. Sole has no eyes."
      Jim: "Oh no!"
        Crocodile: red or white?

        Tuna: red meat or fish?

        Whale: red meat or fish?

        Long pig: the other white meat?

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        "I'd like to be home, with my monkey and my dog..."
        "I'd like to be home, with my monkey and my dog..."
        "I don't care, shut up, play the record."


        In my mind, if it's in the animal kingdom, it's meat. Which includes fish, chicken, snails, crickets, cows, whatever. Which makes me wonder. Would a cricket be considered white meat?

      heh, you've done the same thing. You treated seafood and fish as synonyms. ( Uh, no you didn't ) What about crustaceans and mollusks? They're not fishes, but they're definitely seafood.

      ummmm... lobster...

        I tend to be a bit pedantic, so I would refer to lobster, oyster, shrimp, clam, squid (and I'm sure much more, including fish) as 'seafood', and things like tuna, salmon, whitefish, cod, and others as fish (but also seafood). And of course, to me, those are all 'meat'.

        But honestly, I don't have to worry about it quite so much, since I tend to avoid such foodstuffs as I find dead cow parts much preferable. Especially when aged or served on skewers, or possibly both :-)

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        ummmm... lobster...

        ewwwwww.... water cockroach.

        I prefer my seafood to be educational (warning -- flash), rather than edible.

        (and for the feasting, I'd have preferred lamb or goat)

      You are using a faulty definition of vegetarian. What constitutes meat has nothing to do with what constitutes vegetarian. Think vegetarian == non-animals (or animal kingdom) or better still think vegetarian == vegetable (vegetable kingdom). I'm a long term vegetarian (>14 years now) and I hate it when you go into an eating place and ask about vegetarian dishes and they list the fish and chicken dishes because some-one who doesn't eat whatever (usually "red" down here) meat (for whatever valid reason) and calls themselves vegetarian.

      For the record I've never had a tofu cheesecake but I'm not against trying some if some-one is offering :-)

      Do not seek to follow in the footsteps of the wise. Seek what they sought. -Basho

        Of course, there's also fungi. As far as I know that's fair game to vegetarians.
        What about sea cucumbers? :-)

      Clearly, fish is not meat. I shall demonstrate:

      Consider this jar of "herring in cream sauce". Note that the ingredients include herring and sour cream.

      Now note the hekhsher. It is classified as "kosher, dairy". Since kosher prohibits the mixing of meat and milk, and this is milchik, clearly the herring parts are not meat.


      yours, helpfully,
        Some Sephardim do not eat fish and milk together. But the kosher supervision industry, at least in the US, is pretty Ashkenazi-oriented.
      "But you're eating seafood?" "No I'm not they're sea vegatables."

      The word denial comes to mind. :-)

      I've had similar conversations with some of my Eastern Indian coworkers and friends.

      Turns out, there are many different ways across that sub-continent; and many have their own interpretation of diet.
      Nisha is from Caerla in the south and she will eat anything, no dietary restrictions.
      Sampath is her neighbor to the east, and he won't eat any animal products, even dairy products, but he will eat fish.
      Rama is his compatriot and will eat chicken, and dairy.

      On the other hand, my wife was raised in a Spanish Catholic home; and they interpreted the "meatless" Fridays rule to be "you must eat fish." Whereas in my experience (Irish Catholic/ Episcopalian) Mac and Cheese was as valid as fish because the idea for us was just "no meat".
      I have spent a lot of my life fishing, and I've also spent a lot of time working on farms. Trust me, fish are more disgusting than cattle and hogs.

      And chickens are even worse.

      Though all of them are quite tasty.

      tbone1, YAPS (Yet Another Perl Schlub)
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      - Chick McGee

      I suspect that this is less an Eastern US coastal thing, per se than a very old Christian heritage thing. There was, once upon a time, a religious proscription against eating meat on fast days. Some versions of Christianity still maintain this, with varying numbers of fast days (I know that Roman Catholicism still does; it's just that the fast days have dwindled to Ash Wednesday and Fridays during Lent). On these fast days, "meat", as in "the flesh and offal of terrestrial animals" is forbidden. "Non-meat" flesh, as in the meat and offal of aquatic animals ("aquatic animals" was occasionally defined to include or exclude animals such as muskrats or waterfowl) was allowed. Some more rigorous dietary limitations of the past (this is specifically for Roman Catholics; I don't know whether these ever applied to Orthodox, Coptic, Syriac, etc, Christians) went so far as to include dairy and eggs in the foods forbidden upon fast days.


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