Your findings are thankfully different than mine. I will admit, I didn't read the manual/tutorials before posting my first post (it used br tags for spacing). Yet, I wasn't told to "RTFM" in a mean way, actually several people on the chatterbox gave me advice and pointed me to the tutorials. At that time I assume people thought I was a guy, which I am, as I used he in conversation and pain isn't a "female nick" (assuming you use the 1950 definition of what female nicks are).
That's just me though and one path in life doesn't cover all the hikers
"Pain is weakness leaving the body, I find myself in pain everyday" -me