There I go, moving into an area of life, child rearing, for which I am totally unqualified to express an opinion.

Aren't we all? As a father of five, I still move into such areas all the time. Like this...

You have a very good point there. And I'll certanly give this a serious thought before starting my code editor. Getting the public address to a "live" list would not be such a good idea.

rather than allowing it to become a "super secret" that they will try to hide from you.

Well, my children have full access to the internet (web) (I don't even snort the traffic) so they can watch pretty much whatever they like without me knowing. If they choose to watch some "inappropriate" stuff, it's a bad choise, but it's their choise. I just want to stop the bad choises from hitting them when they make want to make a good choise.

/brother t0mas